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By Shira Lester, Director of Development and Donor Engagement
In my family, Pesach is synonymous with Gefilte Fish. My Bubby Ida, in her heyday, used to make 20 pounds – enough for two enormous seders and leftovers for the immediate family, extended family and friends for the full week of Passover. When I was young and newly married, I lived in the upstairs apartment of Bubby Ida’s duplex on Dalou Street in Montreal. I was in law school at the time and Pesach always coincided with final exams. I would be immersed in my studies and the phone would ring. It was Bubby and she would say: “Come downstairs. I’m making the fish.” “I can’t Bubby,” I would say, “I’m studying”. “Nevermind!” She would say. “Come down and lern zach.” (Learn). Bubby Ida was taught to make gefilte fish by her mother, Rochel Basha, in the Shtetl of Antopol. Rochel Bashe perished in the Holocaust and Bubby used to say “Whenever I make gefilte fish, my mother stands next to me.”
I made gefilte fish with Bubby Ida for years until I moved to Toronto, where my mother and sister already lived. The locus of gefilte fish making shifted to my mother’s kitchen, and Bubby Ida would travel to Toronto to supervise. Bubby Ida died in 2003 at 91 years old and her gefilte fish lives on. Every year, my sister and I set aside a day to make gefilte fish with our mother, Bubby Roz. This year, we were joined by my daughter, adding a third generation to the process.
Over the years, I have learned the Rules of Gefilte Fish Making as taught by Bubby Ida and passed down to Bubby Roz. They are as follows: Never buy ground fish – you have to grind it yourself; you never know what kind of chazerai they put in pre-ground fish. Keep all the fish bones for the broth in which to poach the fish and include onion skins in the broth, it makes the fish a lovely golden colour. Mix the ground fish, eggs, oil, matzoh meal, salt, pepper, a little sugar and ice water, with your hands, for a minimum of 30 minutes until the mixture is fluffy and bouncy – almost like jelly.
There is a recipe, dictated by Bubby Ida to Bubby Roz, but it’s not exact. This dish is less about the measurement of ingredients and more about instinct. The gold standard is if it tastes like Bubby Idas’s. There is no question that when we make gefilte fish, Bubby Ida stands next to us.
In 2006 Bubby Roz began keeping the gefilte fish diaries. Each Pesach, she records the highs and lows of the year since the last Pesach – the accomplishments of her children and grandchildren, a new job, academic achievement and even a marriage. Most importantly, each entry concludes with the gefilte fish review. Sometimes they’re a bit dry, sometimes too dense. This year she wrote: “So the fish wasn’t bad. Texture was good – juicy but didn’t put enough salt in. Didn’t test the raw fish enough. Had a good amount of pepper.”
By Wendy Melvin
I would like to report on an initiative that I undertook in Poland recently. Acting in the capacity of Team Manager representing Canada at the World Masters Track and Field Championships between March 25th and April 1, 2023, I had the good fortune and capacity to reach 4,200 athletes from 55 countries around the world and wanted to create athlete engagement around a Ukrainian Food Drive during our stay.
On March 15, 2023, I initiated a communication to the Team Manager from Holland who has influential communication channels with the executive of World Masters Athletics (WMA), specifically to help me both explore the viability and navigate the possibility of establishing a Ukrainian Refugee fundraising initiative for the duration of the WMA championships.
With a bit of prior investigation, I learned of a very important foundation named Fundacja EMIC (website address is https://emic.com.pl) who are present in the Torun and Bydgoszcz region of Poland. The EMIC has broadly served approximately 33,000 Ukrainians in the past year who now reside between these areas with general necessities, and more specifically in recent months, offer all of the key services so to safely and effectively settle newly arriving families (approximately 4,000 people) into unfamiliar surroundings. Each person receives somewhat customized support depending on their needs. From Canada, the justification for the initiative was clear. But how to execute was challenging given that there was no visibility on whether there could be interest to use the WMA platform as a place for such an initiative, and, we were a mere 10 days away from the commencement of the championships.
Within one week prior to departing for Poland, we received approvals from WMA executive, the Local Organizing Committee (LOC) of the WMA championships and the Torun City Council to proceed.
A letter to define and request participation in the fundraising program was created and immediately shared with all of the world’s Team Managers through What’s App. Within days, I received commitments from several key countries (Holland, Spain, Australia, England, USA, Finland, Sweden and Austria) of their eagerness to share my letter with their athletes both ahead of and during the championships. This was a very good start as it would reach more than 25% of the athletes ahead of our arrival in Poland. Flyers and one very large campaign banner were printed in Toronto and off to Poland we were with a plan.
Upon arrival to the competition stadium, a booth location had already been chosen for us in a key, high-traffic position at the competition arena where all athletes and spectators have to pass through every day. On the first day of the championships, we noticed that two charities EMIC and an additional charity named Dobra DLA Dobra were now involved with the initiative. The LOC explained that the needs in Poland are far more diverse than we imagined. While EMIC, our originally intended recipient of goods focuses on the needs of families, Dobra DLA Dobra focuses on the needs of the soldiers and medical teams on the Polish side of the border. Our comprehension of the scale of actual needs for war relief grew with these insights. We also gained an immense understanding of the strain placed on the people in Poland who have selflessly been at work helping the refugees now for over one year. The two agencies agreed to work together and the project became even more important than we ever could have imagined.
Commencing March 25, Canadian Masters athletes and athletes from around the world started to generously collect non-perishable food items from nearby grocery stores for donation to these organizations. Day by day, the donations grew and grew and grew. One incredible American athlete crocheted a blue and yellow baby blanket with a message that brought us all to tears. It read
“To whomever receives this blanket, I made this blanket as a way to show my support for the people of Ukraine. Sending love and peace to you!”
I am proud to confirm that our donations have gone directly into the hands of the Ukrainian people. There has been joy, and there have been tears. But in the end, we have made a difference. As of April 1st, 1,000 pounds of non-perishable food, along with money in the equivalent of $1,000.00, CDN was directly distributed to those in need. In some cases, we have even been blessed with corporate matching programs so the dollar amount is likely to increase in the coming weeks.
The incredible energy and generosity of our global athletes made this all possible. And I want to recognize everyone who took time from their competition focus to show their compassion for not only the Ukrainians but also, the good people of Poland who have carried the heavy weight of welcoming 1.2 million individuals to Poland in the last year.
To give greater context to this incredible initiative, I was privileged to have visited the offices of EMIC, the registered charitable organization mentioned above that serve to integrate Ukrainian refugees into Poland’s society. The offices have a food drive for weekly needs, a medical advisor, a career counselor and Polish as a second language classes; services which are all offered without delay. I personally felt the anguish on the faces of those who had just arrived in Poland and saw the masked heartbreak on the faces of those a bit further along and presently enrolled in language class. I also saw the strength and conviction of the Ukrainian people to rebuild their lives as quickly as possible. And I received in-depth explanations from the five incredible case workers who tirelessly endeavour to give hope and much-needed services to people who have had to leave their world behind. The long-range effort that goes into integrating the children, for example, is remarkable. But above all, I saw firsthand, the impact of war on beautiful human beings, and this time, it was in stark present.
Back at the stadium, handing food to a Ukrainian grandmother who is caring for the welfare of three generations of refugee family members was poignant on so many levels. Her tears became my tears. My tears in the present were also my tears from the stories of my past. Through this interaction, I saw my Polish great-grandparents who perished in a town not so far away in the eyes of this elder who accepted our food. I also saw my grandparents’ fear and blind trust in the faces of the young people who were navigating their harsh reality in language class much as might have been true during the early days of arriving in Canada. And for long moments in time, I watched young children so innocently laughing and playing in their Rynek (the town square). My great-grandfather was the butcher and a Rabbi who lived with the family at 6 Rynek in the small town of Chmielow. As I stood in the Rynek of Torun and watched life unfold around me, looking at buildings that had been untouched by war, these children became my grandparents. And while I will never replace these sights with actual stories of my past, I found tremendous peace in knitting a visual story together of perhaps what might have been.
There are signs of Jewish life returning to Torun and it was comforting to see clear acknowledgement of the 1,000 Jews who formerly lived in the town. Believe it or not, one of the favourite drinks during Easter is Passover Slivovitz. It is well stocked in grocery stores. A new craft cider labelled Sadowski, white wine named Perry Lubelski, sitting alongside Genesis wine from Israel was pleasing to see. And the coffee shop whose food display was stacked with lox and cream cheese on bagel choices, evidence or signals to me of some sort of redemption.
If you have not been able to find a meaningful way to support the Ukrainian people in the past year, I stand behind my recommendation to donate money to the amazing group at EMIC who have taken on the responsibility to create a safety net of settlement services for hundreds and hundreds of refugees. Their ongoing need for support in funding the services they provide revolves on a weekly basis. I know Olga and her team personally and the work they do is life-changing.
By Martha Cass
After a quarter century of dedicated service and with a bright future ahead, it is our privilege to recognize and celebrate Rabbi Yael Splansky.
On Sunday, May 7 our congregation is cordially invited to a complimentary celebration that is open to all. The theme is A Celebration in Old Jerusalem, which will transport us to the sights, sounds and flavours of our Rabbi’s beloved city.
The festivities will commence with the tantalizing tastes of Israeli cuisine, and the irresistible sounds of a live Klezmer band stirring up the crowd in our beautiful main atrium. As the event unfolds, Israeli dancing will bring us all together in celebration, and tributes will be offered to Rabbi Splansky in the form of speeches and special musical performances.
On the second floor of Temple, we will recreate the vibrant atmosphere of the Jerusalem Market by hosting our own Shuk, complete with a Rabbi Splansky photo opportunity, Judaica for purchase and other fun activities. To ensure our event is family-friendly a Kids Zone with crafts and special snacks will also be available on the second level.
The celebration will culminate in a congregational tribute and hora, and the presentation of a hand-crafted artifact to commemorate our Rabbi’s 25 years of devoted service.
The artifact will be a surprise but will draw from the symbolism of the pomegranate (rimon).
Jewish legend sees the rimon as a symbol of virtue because it holds 613 seeds, corresponding to the number of mitzvot of the Torah. It is no wonder rimonim (pomegranates) have endured as a deeply meaningful symbol in our Jewish heritage; they are both beautiful and resilient. As anyone who has ever tried to extract the succulent seeds from a pomegranate knows, its vibrant exterior is remarkably durable, making it the perfect vessel to hold its many seeds securely yet tenderly.
We can think of no better symbol for our esteemed Rabbi, who has nurtured us all with her kind yet resolute care through good times and bad, and guided Holy Blossom to become not only a place of meaningful belonging for all of us but a place that will endure as our community’s sacred place for generations to come.
We are thrilled to gather in May to celebrate Rabbi Splansky’s extraordinary 25 years and to honour her exceptional leadership, commitment and passion for our congregation. Click here to learn more & join us!
By Cantorial Soloist Lindi Rivers
On Sunday, March 26 I had the pleasure of participating in a concert at Temple Adat Elohim in Thousand Oaks, California, to honour the 50th Anniversary of the Guild of Temple Musicians. My fellow GTM board members gathered from across the United States (and me from Canada) to participate, along with our colleagues in California. The music was composed and performed by members of the GTM with a wide range of styles and moods.
Let me tell you about the GTM. The Guild of Temple Musicians is an affiliate of the American Conference of Cantors. The relationship which has grown and flourished with the ACC is treasured. We are a professional organization of dedicated musicians, diverse in background, who serve our congregations, the Reform Movement, and support our Rabbinic and Cantorial clergy partners. Guild members are music directors, choral conductors, composers, music educators, choir members, organists, keyboardists, guitarists, cantors, cantorial soloists, song leaders, and anyone who makes music in celebration of Jewish Worship. We sing, play, educate, conduct, compose and create, working to sustain our Jewish musical heritage. We are committed to providing innovative education, professional development, and connection for our members, so they can serve their communities wholeheartedly. Our mission is this: To support a diverse community that creates and celebrates Jewish music through education and collaboration.
I have been a member for approximately 25 years, and a Board Member since 2018. Currently, I am privileged to be the Secretary.
The Guild of Temple Musicians was formed in 1972 and has evolved through the years to become the important source of education and support that exists today.
In 1990, The Ben Steinberg Young Composer’s Award (originally called the GTM Young Composer’s Award) was established in an effort to replenish the number of aging composers of serious Jewish Music at the time, as well as emphasize the importance of traditional, adult music in worship services. The project, which encouraged young Jewish composers to produce fully realized solo and choral works for the synagogue and bring a new generation of classically trained creative musicians into the field of Jewish music, has produced many beautiful works from gifted young composers and attracted a number of these composers to become active contributors to synagogue music.
The Award continues to grow in stature and currently offers a $2,500 prize to the winner and the opportunity to premiere his/her new work at the ACC/GTM Convention during the year of their win.
The GTM Shomeir Shirah Award was established in 1990 to recognize persons of good character who have made significant contributions to the Guild, furthered its mission, and have, because of these things, strengthened excellence in the field of synagogue music.
Previous recipients of this award have ranged from Guild members themselves to cantors and rabbis in our movement, and to others who have devoted themselves to reinforcing the work of the Guild.
In 2010, The Guild, along with the ACC and the Joint Commission on Worship, Music, and Religious Living of the Union for Reform Judaism, created the “Generation to Generation Prize.” This prize is awarded to a talented high school student who demonstrates promise in creating melodies that show sensitivity to the setting of Jewish liturgical texts. The winner is then paired with an experienced composer of Jewish liturgical music to refine and expand his/her understanding of the piece.
Even before the pandemic, the GTM created “Guild Talks Music” to provide online educational webinars. We were ahead of our time and became an invaluable source of connection when the pandemic hit and we all moved our lives onto the screen. A second virtual initiative, “Guild Cares” offered the opportunity for our members to share concerns and challenges throughout the pandemic, and we continue to provide these sessions.
Another new GTM initiative is our mentorship program, where members who wish to advance their skills, whether they are cantors, cantorial soloists, composers, or accompanists can be matched with a mentor.
I am deeply honoured to be a part of this group of extraordinary people and look forward to the creative ways in which the GTM and its members will enrich and strengthen one another and the world of Jewish music.
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