Funerals and Mourning Rituals in the Time of COVID-19

(Updated November 24, 2020)

The twin mitzvot of comforting the mourners and bringing honour to the deceased are our priority, even under such trying circumstances. Our Rabbis, Cantors, and Professional Staff are here to support you as always.

Most of the information here is still relevant: https://holyblossom.org/life-cycle/#end

Designed with good guidance of the Ministry of Health, the following are the extraordinary protocols for these extraordinary circumstances.

Funerals

Effective November 23, and until further notice, the maximum number of attendees at a funeral service is limited to 10 (ten) people, including clergy. Funeral home and cemetery staff are additional. Those who act as pallbearers or participate in the burial must wear gloves. Every household must stand 2 metres apart from one another and 2 metres from the grave as well.

These rituals are as powerful as ever – if not more so. We are confident the ceremonies will be a great source of comfort even though adapted to keep everyone healthy.

Click here to read Holy Blossom Memorial Park’s Protocols during COVID-19

Shiva

Shiva ought to be private. Mourners can identify days and times when they’d welcome visitors via video conference or phone. If you’d like some guidance about how to establish a Virtual Shiva via Zoom, Iris Spitz can be your guide. Iris can be reached at [email protected].

Shiva Services

Mourners have two options.

You can join the daily services conducted by our Rabbis and Cantors via Zoom. Service times and simple links may be found here. The name of your loved one will be remembered before Kaddish.
If you’d like our volunteer Shiva Service leaders to lead just your circle of family and friends in a tailor-made service via Zoom, that can be arranged for you. These shiva services are held at 8:00 pm, Sunday – Thursday.
Download the Shiva Book here

Visiting the Cemeteries

We ask that, in accordance with Ontario law, and the stay-at-home Provincial order, that you please do not visit our cemeteries at this time. If you must come to our cemeteries, please wear a facemask/covering, ensure that you maintain physical distancing, and only gather as permitted by law.

The safety of our visitors and staff is very important to us. In accordance with health regulations, we ask that you self access and don’t come to the cemetery if you are sick. Please wear a facemask/covering, maintain physical distancing, and that no more than 5 people gather at a grave for a visit.

Commencing Monday, December 14, 2020, and until further notice, the cemetery will be open for visits as follows:

Sundays through Thursdays from 9:00 a.m. to 4:00 p.m.

Please note that entry into the cemeteries will not be permitted 15 minutes before our closing time.

We are closed for Shabbat, and we will also remain closed on all religious holy days, including 1st Day of Pesach, 7th Day of Pesach, 1st Day of Shavuot, Rosh Hashanah (both days), Yom Kippur, 1st Day of Sukkot, and Shemini Atzeret.

During all other times, our cemetery’s gates will otherwise be locked and entry to visitors will not be permitted other than in the case of funerals in accordance with our existing Covid-19 Protocols.

For important reopening protocols, please click here

Unveilings

All unveiling ceremonies will need to be rescheduled for when Public Health indicates it is safe to do so. Iris Spitz will be happy to help you make arrangements. She may be reached at [email protected].

Contact

If you need assistance, support, or guidance please do not hesitate to contact Iris Spitz, [email protected].