In satz, Third

By Rabbi Michael Satz.

For the last week, I have been home recuperating from a planned knee surgery. I’ve done this a few times, so I knew that I would have a lot of time to lay around. I’m not saying that I was looking forward to the time in my bed (pain, uncomfortableness), I was a little excited to have some time for myself–maybe I would have time to read those “important and significant” novels I’ve been meaning to get to, or I would have time to catch up on emailing old friends, or some other “worthwhile” things. I have read part of a novel. No email, but yes Facebook. And, I have surfed the web and watched sitcoms on Netflix.

We always plan to make the best of our time, but we often let it slip away. This week I did read a column in the New York Times by Arthur C. Brooks called “To Be Happier, Start Thinking More About Your Death.

His lede drew me in:

Want a better 2016? Try thinking more about your impending demise.

Years ago on a visit to Thailand, I was surprised to learn that Buddhist monk often contemplate the photos of corpses in various stages of decay. The Buddha himself recommended corpse meditation. “This body, too,” students were taught to say about their own bodies, “such is its nature, such is its future, such its unavoidable fate.”

Paradoxically, this meditation on death is intended as a key to better living. It makes disciples aware of the transitory nature of their own physical lives and stimulates a realignment between momentary desires and existential goals. In other words, it makes one ask, “Am I making the right use of my scarce and precious life?”

(As an aside, there is a Jewish version of this. In 19th century Lithuania, Rabbi Yosef Yozel Horowitz, the Alter of Novardok, would have his yeshiva students sit and meditate in a room with a rotting fish to contemplate eternity.)

Brooks is not advocating this corpse practice, and neither am I (or the Jewish fish version), but I do advocate the main point of the op-ed: “Our days tend to be an exercise in distraction. We think about the past and future more than the present; we are mentally in one place and physically in another. Without consciousness, we mindlessly blow the present moment on low-value activities.” By “low-value”, Brooks doesn’t mean activities that don’t make money; he means activities that aren’t meaningful.

What are meaningful activities? The answer(s) to that question are subjective, but in a Jewish communal context, our Tradition would answer Torah, Avodah, and G’milut Chasadim–study, worship, and acts of compassion, kindness, and justice. At Holy Blossom Temple we strive to be a community of meaning through our programs focused on these areas. I think that we at HBT can help each other spend our fleeting time in meaningful activities. In 2016, let’s resolve to make meaning in time, rather than waste time because we don’t have that much time.

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  • Rabbi Michael Satz
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    Thank you for all the kind words. I’ve been back at work part time for a few days now, and everyday I am becoming more mobile. I’m doing my physio exercises, and I being careful on the ice. I’m so appreciative of all my colleagues here who are helping me carry things and pack up my office for our big move to the school wing next week.

  • Jo Ann Weissman Posen
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    I’ve had 2 knees and 2 hips replaced in the last year and a half so I do know what it is to spend time recuperating! I’m truly a bionic person. Take it easy in your recovery and you’ll have a full and complete one.

  • Teresa & Alberto Quiroz
    Reply

    Enjoy the time to read learn and reflect. We would like to hear more of what you are learning.
    With our best wishes for a speedy and complete recovery.

  • Elaine and Marv Givertz
    Reply

    A good recovery. If you had a knee replacement than work hard at doing your exercises. It makes a difference and definitely keeps you focused on the present.
    Shabbat Shalom
    Elaine and Marv Givertz

  • Elaine Socol
    Reply

    Thank you, Rabbi, for the excellent article. I must admit that it comes at a very appropriate time in my life, so I plan to respond to that in a meaningful way. Wishing you a speedy, but good recovery…..Elaine Socol from Fullerton, California

  • Charles and Joy Cohen
    Reply

    Charles and I send our best wishes for a speedy and complete recovery.
    Joy Cohen

    • Jo Ann Weissman Posen
      Reply

      Greetings to Charles and Joy Cohen from “sister-in-law” Jo AnnEeissman Posen. Let’s communicate via Facebook or email, OK?

  • Cynthia Good
    Reply

    Hope recovery is easy. Glad it is giving you time to read and contemplate!

  • Linda Wolfe
    Reply

    Firstly, a speedy recovery. Secondly, an interesting article. I think as one ages, this becomes even more relevant. I will continue to search out these important and meaningful activities.

  • Nadine Charendoff
    Reply

    Wishing you a peaceful and easy recovery.

  • Eleanor and Peter Loebel
    Reply

    Sending wishes for your speedy and complete healing.

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